tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-87577246724451012812024-03-12T18:13:48.875-07:00Creating Memory LaneWhat will I remember when I look back?Elizabethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05569106064175315496noreply@blogger.comBlogger60125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757724672445101281.post-10615199520784458942012-11-06T22:32:00.001-08:002012-11-06T22:32:31.634-08:00God Has Other PlansGrowing up, I'd always thought, "You know, if I'm not dating anyone seriously by the time I'm 21, I'm going to serve a mission." With how my dating life in high school was turning out, I was not only positive that I'd be going on a mission, but that I probably wouldn't be getting married until I was somewhere between 24-26. My friends all laughed at me and told me that I'd be married by 20.<div>
Well, Heavenly Father had different plans for me than I had thought. In May 2011, I officially met my future husband. I had unofficially met him when I went on a date with his roommate in October 2010, and he doubled with us. He was originally just dating while he waited for a Sister Missionary, but I didn't know that at first. </div>
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When I first found out he was waiting for a Sister Missionary, I was pretty upset. I was already really interested in him at this point, and we had been on a date a week for 4 or 5 weeks now. My roommates had started spying through the peep hole after our dates to see if I would be getting my first kiss anytime soon, and I would be lying if I said that I wasn't hoping for it as well. Finding out that he was waiting for her was crushing, and I began to resolve to get over him and to move on with my life. I had made resolutions like this before with other guys, and it never took long for me to actually follow through these types of resolutions. It's lucky for him that the very next day he asked me if we could go on a walk because he needed someone to talk to. </div>
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On the walk, he told me that he didn't know where things were going, but that he was having a lot of fun going on dates with me, and he still wanted to continue to go on dates. The peace and reassurance I felt was phenomenal. The Spirit prompted me strongly that I should continue dating him, even though I didn't know where it was going to go. Later, when we began talking about marriage I made it a matter of prayer. I counseled with my bishop, who listened to me and then asked me if I'd prayed about it. When I told him that I had and that I felt good about it, he encouraged me in my decision. And I had felt good about it. I knew that Andrew was the right guy for me to marry. On our wedding day, in the Celestial room, I felt a VERY strong confirming witness that I was marrying the RIGHT guy in the RIGHT place at the RIGHT time.</div>
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We had gotten a lot of advice from people telling us to wait to have children, because we really need the first couple of years to strengthen our relationship before we brought children into the picture. We decided that was a good idea and decided to wait a couple of years to have children.</div>
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Once again, Heavenly Father had a different plan for us. During our Building a Celestial Marriage institute course, we were discussing not postponing having children. It was emphasized that it was between us and the Lord, but I felt an overwhelming thought come to me. WE HADN'T PRAYED ABOUT OUR DECISION TO WAIT. I talked to Andrew about it, and we made it a matter of personal prayer and study, and at the end of the week brought our answer to the temple. Through the entire week I couldn't shake the VERY strong feeling I was getting that we were not supposed to wait to start our family. At the temple, we had confirmation after confirmation after confirmation that we weren't supposed to wait.</div>
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<br />It hasn't ended there. I have received inspiration at the temple time and time again since then that we're not supposed to wait, that our children are on the other side of the veil praying to come down to us, and on and on. Andrew and I are not going to wait.</div>
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I haven't used any form of birth control for 9 months now, and we are both excited and sometimes impatient to be able to have children. I am still not pregnant. I have received very strong witnesses that Heavenly Father is in charge of the timing of when our children will come to us, though, so I do not have to worry. I trust in my Father in Heaven, and I know that He is in charge of this timing. I know He has what is best in mind for my family and I. Because of this, I am willing to wait however long He needs me to.<br /><br /><br />Heavenly Father has other plans for us. I have received so much criticism saying that I should have gone on a mission, and that they expected so much more from me. I believe that I AM serving a mission where I am, as a faithful daughter of God, and wife to my husband, as we do family names and bring them to the temple. I believe that our striving to break family cycles is a mission and calling from God as well. I have been told by countless numbers of people that I should wait to have my family. THAT IS NOT GOD'S WILL FOR ME. I can't ignore the answers and promptings I have received. God knows the bigger picture, so even if His plans are different, I am following them.</div>
Elizabethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05569106064175315496noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757724672445101281.post-63233770731728783962012-10-15T18:48:00.002-07:002012-10-15T18:48:32.111-07:00Giveaway!No, I'm not doing a giveaway. BUT! This lovely lady at <a href="http://www.housewifeeclectic.com/2012/10/owl-necklace-giveaway.html">http://www.housewifeeclectic.com/2012/10/owl-necklace-giveaway.html</a> is!!! Look at how cute this necklace is!! :)<br />
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So, here's the recipe the whole world has been waiting for!!! TA-DA!!! :D<br />
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2 cups sugar (feel free to have them just a little bit overflowing)<br />
4 TBS cocoa<br />
1/2 cup butter<br />
1/2 cup milk<br />
1 1/2 cups peanut butter (MUST BE CREAMY)<br />
1 TBS vanilla<br />
3 1/2 cups oatmeal<br />
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In a heavy saucepan at medium-ish temperature, bring to boil the sugar, cocoa, butter, and milk. Let boil for 1 minute then add peanut butter and vanilla. Stir until completely melted. Then stir in the oatmeal. On the waxed paper or non-stick cookie sheets, drop in whatever size you want to eat them in and let them cool.Elizabethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05569106064175315496noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757724672445101281.post-29892843168150137292012-04-05T18:31:00.001-07:002012-04-05T18:37:09.661-07:00Fun Dating IdeasI'm sure many people have those moments of mental shortages where they just CAN'T think of any fun new date ideas. So, here are some that I have done with my husband to get some of your own creative juices flowing.<br />
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<b>Go to Savers and pick out the ugliest outfit you can find for your date.<br />
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Hollow out zucchinis, stick toothpicks around them for leverage, and race them down a river.</b><br />
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<b>Go to Cornbelly's at Thanksgiving Point.<br />
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Build boats using JUST masking tape, straws, toothpicks, and marshmallows. Then make a main marshmallow character to ride your boat. Race them down the stream. You can win in several categories:<br />
Who's character stays dry the longest<br />
Who's boat stays afloat/together the longest</b><br />
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<div align="CENTER" style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-size: large;"><b>Liz’s Cheesy Potato-Corn Chowder</b></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><b>(with sausage)</b></span></div><div align="CENTER" style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-size: medium;">(Revised 6-09)</span></div><div align="CENTER" style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><br />
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</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><b>1 lb. Polska or Smoked Sausage</b></span><span style="font-size: medium;"> (I prefer Hillshire Farms Lite or Regular)</span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><b>9 cups water </b></span><span style="font-size: medium;">(you can substitute 1-2 cups milk, if desired)</span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><b>2 2/3 c. (or 11 oz. pkg.) Bear Creek Chunky or Creamy Potato Soup Mix</b></span><span style="font-size: medium;"> </span> </div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><b>*2 cups diced potatoes </b></span><span style="font-size: medium;">(*optional if using Chunky Potato Soup Mix)</span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><b>3 cups frozen corn</b></span><span style="font-size: medium;"> (or 2 cans niblet corn with liquid-and omit 1 cup of the water above)</span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><b>1 8 oz. jar Cheeze Whiz</b></span><span style="font-size: medium;"> (Lite or Regular)</span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Cut </span><span style="font-size: medium;"><b>sausage</b></span><span style="font-size: medium;"> into bite size pieces. Saute sausage pieces in a large pot to bring out the flavor.</span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Remove sausage into a bowl and cover. Leave drippings in the pot.</span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Add </span><span style="font-size: medium;"><b>water</b></span><span style="font-size: medium;"> and </span><span style="font-size: medium;"><b>milk</b></span><span style="font-size: medium;"> to the pot and bring to a boil. </span> </div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Whisk in </span><span style="font-size: medium;"><b>potato soup mix</b></span><span style="font-size: medium;">. (If you are using creamy potato soup mix, dice 2 cups of potatoes and add to soup.)</span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Simmer 10 minutes.</span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Add </span><span style="font-size: medium;"><b>Cheese Whiz</b></span><span style="font-size: medium;"> and </span><span style="font-size: medium;"><b>corn</b></span><span style="font-size: medium;"> to the soup.</span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Add </span><span style="font-size: medium;"><b>sausage</b></span><span style="font-size: medium;"> to the soup.</span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Simmer 20-30 minutes.</span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Add </span><span style="font-size: medium;"><b>more water</b></span><span style="font-size: medium;"> or milk as needed if soup gets too thick.</span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><br />
</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Serve hot with cornbread or rolls.</span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><br />
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</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Source: Edye MacTaggart</span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Adapted from original recipe of Liz Livingston</span></div>Elizabethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05569106064175315496noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757724672445101281.post-51255635285025768112012-01-19T18:01:00.000-08:002012-01-19T18:01:49.238-08:00"So, How's The Married Life?"That seems to be the question I get asked the most now that I am newly married. Here's the best response I can possibly give to such an inquiry.<br />
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Girls, which of you WOULDN'T love being married to someone that...<br />
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<ul><li>Opens doors for you everywhere you go (And it's not just a temporary special treatment - he does this for his mom, too.)</li>
<li>When he sees dirty dishes on the counter, says, "Wow, your husband really needs to do some dishes!" and then actually follows through with it. Yes, he does the dishes.</li>
<ul><li>When he goes over to your mom's house, he helps with her dishes, too. </li>
</ul><li>Says that the greatest thing you can do for him when he gets home is have something he can help with.</li>
<li>Treats you like the most beautiful, incredible princess/queen that has ever walked this earth.</li>
<li>Loves your cooking and compliments it (even if you KNOW you added too much garlic or salt).</li>
<ul><li>And even though he claims he can't cook, he makes dinner as well so you aren't doing it every single night.</li>
<li>(And, by the way, he makes the world's best No Bake Cookies EVER - they taste like Reese's Peanut Butter Cups)</li>
</ul><li>When you come home from work and have had a crappy day, decides that you're having ice cream for dinner. "Because ice cream makes everything better," he says. Then, as a follow up, he holds you and tells you how much you mean to him, how wonderful you are, and that he loves you, until any possible bad feeling has flown away.</li>
<li>Prioritizes taking you on a date every single week.</li>
<li>Prioritizes going to the temple with you every single week.</li>
<li>Makes you laugh every single day with his wonderful sense of humor.</li>
<li>Talks with you, listens to you, and cares about everything you have to say.</li>
<li>Makes sound effects when you get into a pillow fight (I drew a sword on mine, he drew a lightsaber on his) and Nerf gun wars.</li>
<ul><li>In fact, I enjoy fighting with my spouse, because the only kinds of fights we get into are tickle fights, pillow fights, Nerf gun wars, thumb wars, and Pokemon battles. Otherwise, verbally, we communicate and compromise.</li>
</ul><li>Tells you that you are the best thing that has ever happened to him, that you are his whole world, you are everything to him, and that the best moment of his whole life was looking through the mirrors in the sealing room of the temple with you.</li>
<ul><li>And he tells you OFTEN. :)</li>
</ul><li>He tells you he loves you at least once a day.</li>
<ul><li>Meaning, he tells you every single time he gets the chance. Which is a LOT of times every day.</li>
</ul><li>He takes you ballroom dancing and is patient with you when you mess up.</li>
<li>He plays with your younger siblings, who love him, and never gets after them or gets impatient with them when they decide he's their new jungle gym.</li>
<li>Hides love notes on sticky notes around the house, but makes it somewhat difficult so that you have something to do while he's gone.</li>
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</div><div>This is just the tip of the ice berg.</div><div><br />
</div><div>So how is married life?</div><div><br />
</div><div>It's the best thing that has ever happened to me, because it's with HIM.</div><div>It's like having a sleepover with my very best friend every single night - pillow fights included.</div><div>It's 6 bajillion percent better than being single.</div><div>And it's 5 bajillion percent better than being engaged.</div><div><br />
</div><div>There's no way to cover all of it. :) But, in short, I highly recommend it. It's superb!! :)</div><div><br />
ESPECIALLY when it's to the RIGHT PERSON in the RIGHT PLACE by the RIGHT AUTHORITY :)</div>Elizabethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05569106064175315496noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757724672445101281.post-59993132095702546852012-01-17T20:44:00.000-08:002012-01-17T20:44:34.415-08:00"Spicy Instinct Sauce"I have invented yet another new dish!! :) SUPER yummy!!<br />
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Here's the guesstimate on what I actually put into this...<br />
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1 2/3 cups of shredded chicken<br />
1 chicken bouillon cubes<br />
1 1/2 Tbs of Canola Oil<br />
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Fry that together, then add<br />
1 more chicken bouillon cube<br />
1 cup of water<br />
1 cup plain yogurt<br />
1 1/2 - 2 cups salsa<br />
1 1/2 tsp fennel seed<br />
1/2 tsp crushed bay leaves<br />
1 tsp ground cayenne red pepper<br />
1 tsp garlic<br />
1 Tbs of dried/minced onions<br />
pepper to taste<br />
a dash of Herbes De Provence<br />
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Pour this as a sauce over rice. I'm not 100% on measurements, since what I do is smell the seasonings and decide if it has the right smell for the taste I'm going for (Hence my husband deciding to name it Spicy Instinct Sauce).<br />
It turned out really good, though!! Here's to hoping I can re-create this delicious dish in the future, since my husband and I both love it! :)<br />
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Enjoy!!Elizabethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05569106064175315496noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757724672445101281.post-89390441437500807182012-01-06T15:48:00.000-08:002012-01-06T15:48:07.744-08:00Time & All Eternity... Starting Now!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">Or, I guess technically starting December 16. 2011. Which was 3 weeks ago today. However, I think it's one of those things you recommit to every day and it begins over and over time and time again. There is no "starting point" or "ending point" when it comes to Eternity. We had been preparing for the covenants and vows we made to our Heavenly Father and each other long before we ever knelt across the alter and promised forever. It began even before we entered into this world. I would haphazard that it began even before we officially accepted our Savior's Plan to receive bodies and have the wonderful gift of Agency. Even then the righteousness and choices and decisions we were making led up to the kind of people that we are here and now. But that is a thought for another time.<br />
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Can you believe it?? I'm married now!!!<br />
And let me just say that I highly recommend marriage :) It's marvelous! Especially when you have the wonderful blessing of being married to your best friend FOREVER!!! :)</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgNRpuUBcxAnZcYU8koH9YIJQwMYCKdGawUkbL0UVdFvDsrpRKT5pN9ru9a2A0pcuYR_fLGA03lMC1IS8rduQAv57vp1d9v3rFrZUn3qqTfLgb_rsh81wlHiyT9sCnJ4AWaF9r3S8q-beLk/s1600/386582_2907451293432_1475050722_33061073_143961262_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgNRpuUBcxAnZcYU8koH9YIJQwMYCKdGawUkbL0UVdFvDsrpRKT5pN9ru9a2A0pcuYR_fLGA03lMC1IS8rduQAv57vp1d9v3rFrZUn3qqTfLgb_rsh81wlHiyT9sCnJ4AWaF9r3S8q-beLk/s400/386582_2907451293432_1475050722_33061073_143961262_n.jpg" width="300" /></a></div><br />
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"As you can see, I loved cats..." I told Andrew.<br />
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The reaction was immediate. Andrew began singing.<br />
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"I love cats, I love every kind of cat! I just want to hug all of them, but I can't! Can't hug every cat."<br />
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Well, he got the reaction he was looking for: I was laughing.<br />
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For those of you that are confused by this, I will share the origin of this outburst. If you decide to watch this, I will not blame you if you don't want to watch the video after it, which is where the song originated from. Here's the song:<br />
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This is the song someone parodied off of this - I'm pretty sure when I first saw these, I was POSITIVE these HAD to be fake. She must have been acting or SOMETHING. But to me, this dating video screams, "GUYS, unless you love cats and want to be buried alive in them, RUN FOR YOUR LIVES!!"<br />
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><iframe allowfullscreen='allowfullscreen' webkitallowfullscreen='webkitallowfullscreen' mozallowfullscreen='mozallowfullscreen' width='320' height='266' src='https://www.youtube.com/embed/mTTwcCVajAc?feature=player_embedded' frameborder='0'></iframe></div>Elizabethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05569106064175315496noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757724672445101281.post-31874813369257313412011-11-14T10:45:00.000-08:002011-11-14T10:45:15.987-08:00Another Blog!I've been debating about starting another blog for a while now (I know, I know... I already have more than one... But this one is different). Well, the debating is over. I went ahead and started my other blog.<br />
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The blog I just started is entitled "Bread of Life: A Testament of The Living Christ" - In case the title doesn't make the purpose clear, this blog will focus entirely on gospel topics & so on. I've posted a couple of times on different gospel topics (like Angels Among Us, Adversity, etc) but this blog would be a place where I can focus on church topics entirely. In it I hope to learn and grow and increase my own testimony of the gospel while simultaneously having the opportunity to share the gospel (I hope!) and also, hopefully, answer others' (and my own) prayers.<br />
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While I haven't really advertised my other blogs much, I hope to be better about advertising this one so that it reaches more people and will hopefully find those that need it the most.<br />
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I will be using, as sources, scriptures, general conference talks, and quotes from church leaders, as well as my own testimony and personal experiences, so that what I teach will be in line with the gospel.<br />
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Anyway, here's the link! Please check it out, give feedback, and follow! :<br />
<a href="http://bearing-testimony.blogspot.com/">http://bearing-testimony.blogspot.com/</a>Elizabethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05569106064175315496noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757724672445101281.post-41657342716547732612011-11-13T06:32:00.001-08:002011-11-13T06:32:35.161-08:00"Amen! (An Interrupted Prayer)" by Ted Gibbons<div style="border-bottom: solid windowtext 1.0pt; border: none; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid windowtext .75pt; mso-element: para-border-div; padding: 0in 0in 1.0pt 0in;"> <div class="MsoNormal" style="border: none; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid windowtext .75pt; mso-padding-alt: 0in 0in 1.0pt 0in; padding: 0in;"><b><u> “Amen! (An Interrupted Prayer)” by Ted Gibbons<o:p></o:p></u></b></div></div><div class="MsoNormal">“My dear Father in Heaven . . .<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"> <i>Yes?<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">Could we have a little quiet around here? I’m praying.<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"> <i>But you called me.<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">Called who? I didn’t call anybody. I’m praying. My Dear Father in Heaven . . .<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"> <i>There. You did it again.<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">Did what?<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"> <i>Called me. You said, “My dear Father in Heaven.”<br />
Here I am. What’s on your mind?<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">But I didn’t mean anything by it. I was just, you know, saying my prayers for the night. I always say my prayers. I don’t feel good about going to sleep if I don’t.<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"> <i>Oh. All right. Go on.<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">Are you kidding?<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"> <i>You did want to talk to me, didn’t you?<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">Well . . . yes.<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"> <i>Here I am. Talk.<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">I’m thankful for my many blessings . . .<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"> <i>Excuse me again! How thankful?<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">What?<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"> <i>How thankful are you for your ‘many blessings’?<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">I’m . . . well . . . I don’t know. It’s just a part of the prayer. Mom always told me I should always express my thanks when I pray.<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"> <i>Oh. Well . . . you’re certainly welcome. Go ahead.<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">Go ahead?<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"> <i>With the prayer.<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">Oh. Yeah. Let’s see . . . bless the poor and the downtrodden, the unfortunate and the afflicted . . .<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"> <i>Do you really mean that?<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">Sure I mean it.<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"> <i>What are you doing about it?<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">Doing? What am I doing about it? Well . . . I’m praying about it. I just think that it would be nice if you got control of things down here. I don’t like to see people suffer.<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"> <i>Do I have control over you?<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">Sure. I go to church. I make donations sometimes. I even read the scriptures once in a while. I don’t . . .<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: .5in;"><i>That isn’t what I asked you. What about your temper? You don’t even have control of that, and your friends and family suffer. And then there’s the way you spend your money. And how about the kind of books you read? And the movies you see?<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">Well, Father, I think I’m as good as most of the people I see every Sunday at church.<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: .5in;"><i>And you are, but I thought you were praying for me to bless the afflicted. If that is going to happen, I’ll have to have help from the ones who are praying for it. Like you.<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">I understand. I guess I have a few hangups. Since you brought it up, I could probably mention some others.<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"> <i>So could I. Should we visit about them?<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">Oh . . . Let me get back to you on that. I need to finish up here. This is taking a lot longer than usual. Bless the honest in heart to come to thy Son and receive His blessings.<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"> <i>You mean people like Ralph?<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">Ralph?<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: .5in;"><i>Yes. The one you’ve taught your little brother, Joey, to call ‘Beer-belly Ralph.’ The man around the corner.<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">That Ralph? Ralph Swenson? You’ve got to be kidding. He hasn’t been sober since he was sixteen. And he hates organized religion.<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"> <i>Why?<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">I don’t know.<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"> <i>It couldn’t have anything to do with the names the neighborhood kids call him, could it?<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">OK. I get the message. I’ll tell Joey to cut it out.<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"> <i>By the way, have you had a look at his heart lately?<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">His heart?<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"> <i>I have. I’ve looked. And it’s one of those honest hearts you were just praying about.<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">Well, then, do something about it. Do you think I like having an atheist for a neighbor?<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"> <i>Aren’t you supposed to share the gospel? I thought I’d made that pretty clear.<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">That’s scary. I wouldn’t have any idea how to approach him.<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: .5in;"><i>Try a little tolerance and friendship. Try a little service. If you get desperate, try asking me for help.<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">Father, wait a minute. I know I’m not perfect. But I<u> am</u> here, doing my duty, keeping your commandment to pray, and all of a sudden, you’re here, reminding me of all my problems.<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: .5in;"><i>Child, you called me. Remember? Keep on praying. I’m interested in the next part. You haven’t changed the order around, have you?<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">I don’t want to go on.<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"> <i>Why not?<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">I know what you’ll say.<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"> <i>Try me and see.<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">Please forgive me of all my sins, and help me to forgive others.<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"> <i>What about David?<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">See! I knew it! I knew you’d bring him up. Listen, Lord. He told lies about me and I lost my job – the best job I ever had. Everyone in that office thinks I crawled out from under a rock, and I didn’t do anything except choose other friends! Am I supposed to let him get away with that?<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"> <i>But your prayers. What about your prayers?<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">I didn’t mean that part about forgiving.<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"> <i>Well, at least you’re honest. I guess you enjoy carrying that load of bitterness around, don’t you?<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">No, I don’t. But I’ll feel better as soon as I get even.<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"> <i>Do you want to know a secret?<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">What secret?<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"> <i>You won’t feel better. You’ll feel worse. Listen to me. You forgive David, and I’ll forgive you.<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">Forgive me? For what?<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"> <i>For what? How much time do you have?<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">All right. Never mind. But, Lord . . . I don’t think I can forgive David.<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"> <i>Then I can’t forgive you.<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">Why not?<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"> <i>Because I hate to encourage hypocrisy.<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">Oh. All right. Please help me to control my actions and not yield to temptation.<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: .5in;"><i>Good. I’ll do just that. But you stop putting yourself in all those places where you can be tempted.<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">What do you mean by that?<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: .5in;"><i>Quit hanging around the magazine racks and spending so much time in front of the tube. That stuff is going to get to you sooner or later and you’ll find yourself involved in something terrible. When you do, don’t expect me to rescue you, either.<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">Rescue me? I don’t understand.<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: .5in;"><i>Think about it. You’ve done it lots of times. You put very little effort into our relationship until you find yourself in a crisis; then you come running. I know just how your dad feels</i>.<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal">My dad?<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: .5in;"><i>Your dad. The only time you talk to him is when you need something. As a matter of fact, it’s amazing how quickly the intensity of your prayers improves when you are in trouble. Do you remember some of those bargains you wanted to make with me?<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">Bargains? No . . . well, I don’t think . . . Oh yeah, like thet time I went to that show and met Mom’s friend on the street when I came out . . . Oh, brother!<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: .5in;"><i>Do you remember your prayer? I do. You said, “Oh, God, don’t let her tell my mother where I’ve been. I promise I’ll go to nothing but ‘G’-rated movies from now on.” She didn’t tell your mother, but you didn’t keep your promise, did you?<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">No, Father, I didn’t. I’m sorry.<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"> <i>So am I. Go on and finish your prayer.<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">No, wait. I want to ask you a question. Do you always listen to my prayers?<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"> <i>Every word. Every time.<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">Why haven’t you ever answered me before?<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: .5in;"><i>How many chances have you given me? There’s not enough time between your “Amen” and your head hitting the pillow for me to take a breath. How am I supposed to give you an answer?<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">You could, if you really wanted to.<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"> <i>No, I could if you really wanted me to. Child, I always want to.</i><o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal">Father, I’m sorry. Will you forgive me?<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: .5in;"><i>I already have. And thanks for letting me interrupt. I get lonely to talk to you sometimes. Good night. I love you.<o:p></o:p></i></div><div class="MsoNormal">Good night. And I love you, too.”<o:p></o:p></div>Elizabethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05569106064175315496noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757724672445101281.post-82886974099943508082011-11-07T09:46:00.000-08:002011-11-07T09:46:34.237-08:00A Few Random Facts About Andrew<ul><li>His favorite color is emerald, which is also his birthstone.</li>
</ul><ul><li>He's an even bigger bookworm than I am. (I didn't think this was possible...) </li>
<ul><li>His favorite genre is Science Fiction, and his favorite Sci-Fi author is David Weber. </li>
</ul></ul><ul><li>He likes chick flicks, like Pride and Prejudice and Ever After. </li>
<ul><li>His favorite movie, though, is How to Train Your Dragon.</li>
</ul></ul><ul><li>He knows how to crochet; his grandmother taught him, I believe. </li>
</ul><ul><li>He took a clogging class when he was young, and often when we're dancing will do foot work he learned from clogging to a dance, mixed with steps from ballroom.</li>
</ul><ul><li>He loves telling jokes and can come up with one for pretty much every topic.</li>
</ul><ul><li>He's extremely punny and loves puns. </li>
<ul><li>All of his Halloween costumes have been pun related. (We taped matches on our shirts and were "Matching" - he wore a suit and I wore a formal dress, and we dressed up as "dressed up" - he wore bike tires around his shirt and went as "tired").</li>
<li>He also bought a kite once with a flying pig on it just so he could get pigs to fly... The kite broke.</li>
</ul></ul><ul><li>His favorite flower is the dandelion.</li>
<ul><li> He loves how sunshine-y and yellow they are, and how hardy they are.</li>
</ul></ul><ul><li>He loves Mexican food, and his favorite drink is a purple corn drink he had on his mission in Florida.</li>
</ul><ul><li>His main love languages are Communication, Quality Time, and Touch.</li>
</ul><ul><li>He has a really good voice (especially when he's singing Hymns, I think.) </li>
<ul><li>He enjoys singing falsetto (maybe because it makes me laugh?) and can sing Taylor Swift songs in the correct octave.</li>
</ul></ul><ul><li>He loves hiking and camping and the outdoors.</li>
</ul><ul><li>He's a really fast learner, and is amazing at math.</li>
</ul><ul><li>He doesn't like writing all that much, because he misspells words often. He hates the red line that goes underneath of words if you misspell them, and rather than try to spell things correctly he'll just figure out a way to reword it. Because of this, he's not the biggest fan of English classes.</li>
</ul><ul><li>He loves dancing. A lot. He's been on the bronze and silver ballroom teams at UVU, and they offered him a position on the gold team, which he didn't take.</li>
</ul><ul><li>As a little boy, if he ever went missing, his hiding place was underneath of two lilac bushes in his front yard.</li>
</ul><ul><li>He claims that he doesn't really cook, but he makes AMAZING spaghetti sauce.</li>
</ul><ul><li>He is a huge fan of pickles, olives, and banana peppers. </li>
</ul>Elizabethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05569106064175315496noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757724672445101281.post-23802944924888367472011-11-03T19:04:00.000-07:002011-11-03T19:04:10.262-07:00What Love Is Built On"True Love" comes in many shapes, sizes, forms, and colors.<br />
<br />
Mine came in a way quite different than I had ever had in mind. My relationship is not entirely how I had imagined love and marriage would be. But now that I try looking back, I'm not entirely sure what I had been expecting.<br />
Roses and chocolates? Love letters? Bold declarations to the world of his love for me?<br />
<br />
My love didn't come in quite that form. My love was built on things I thought I had left behind in childhood, as well as many other things that I love and enjoy now. My love encompasses areas of all stages of my lifetime thus far.<br />
<br />
So what is my love built on?<br />
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<b>Dancing.</b><br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Andrew and I met at a Stake Dance we were both crashing.<br />
I don't think Heavenly Father left much of that meeting up to chance; He definitely had a hand in it.<br />
But that's another story.<br />
I knew ballroom, but the only other guy there that I knew knew how to dance was Tom, Andrew's younger brother.<br />
Tom was on a date, but he was kind enough to dance one dance with me when I asked him to.<br />
That was enough for Andrew to notice that I knew ballroom and help him decide that he needed to ask me to dance.<br />
We ended up dancing almost every single dance together that night.<br />
<br />
(Also, a random side note: Andrew is the first guy EVER to ask me to interpretive dance to a slow dance with him.)<br />
<br />
That was the first time we have danced together, but definitely not the last. Dancing will be a part of our relationship pretty much always.</td></tr>
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<b>Hiking.</b><br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">This was our first date.<br />
Look at the far right top corner. See that series of tiny little lines? That is a ledge.<br />
Andrew convinced me, without much effort, to go along that with him to get a really good view of the waterfall.<br />
I'm not entirely sure how/why I already trusted him enough to follow him on that.<br />
Especially since falling is my greatest fear.<br />
<br />
The top of this waterfall is where Andrew proposed to me on August 9th, 2011.</td></tr>
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<b>Coloring In Coloring Books.</b><br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">You can go back and read that again if you have to. Because you read correctly.<br />
When he asked me on this date, I was beyond excited.<br />
For real.<br />
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</tbody></table><b>Forts.</b><br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">We made one on a date.<br />
And watched movies.<br />
He chose Pride and Prejudice (Turns out he likes chick flicks - yes, you read that right, too).<br />
I chose Tangled (He agrees with Flynn Ryder; he's always had a thing for brunettes.)</td></tr>
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<b>Thumb Wars.</b><br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">This would be one of the things I was never expecting to find in love.<br />
Neither was he.<br />
Even though he started it.<br />
He accepts all blame and responsibility for starting these.<br />
I don't think he cares, because he seems to enjoy them.<br />
So do I :)</td></tr>
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<b>Poking Fights Turned Tickle Fights.</b><br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">He cheats. He spins me around and holds me like this so that I can't retaliate.<br />
Once again, something he started.<br />
He accepts full blame for this as well.</td></tr>
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<b>Falsetto Singing.</b><br />
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I don't really have a picture of this. But he does it. A lot. He sings Taylor Swift in the right octave.<br />
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<b>Jokes.</b><br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">He likes telling jokes.<br />
A lot.<br />
Say ANYTHING, and it will remind him either of a story or a joke.<br />
Probably a joke.</td></tr>
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<b>Pokemon Battling.</b><br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">This is probably the biggest nerd confession I have ever made.<br />
I thought I was done with these in Elementary School.<br />
Apparently not.<br />
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. . . Don't judge me.</td></tr>
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<br />
Some things are the same as I had pictured. Others? Definitely not so much.<br />
My favorites are the the small things.<br />
<br />
The look he gets in his eyes when he looks at me.<br />
When he spins me around in circles.<br />
When he calls me beautiful even when I don't feel beautiful at all.<br />
When he rolls up his sleeves and starts on the dishes.<br />
When he bows his head and offers the prayer.<br />
When he helps his younger sister learn how to dance.<br />
When he helps his younger sister with her math homework.<br />
When he helps his mom make dinner.<br />
When he laughs and jokes with James, and I see them getting along so well.<br />
<br />
This only scratches the surface.<br />
<br />
I'm so happy for the shape, size, form, and color my true love came in :)<br />
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I love you, Andrew!!<br />
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" . . . That <i>may</i> have something to do with it," Andrew admitted, smiling at me with wide eyes, trying to pull an innocent expression to win me over. That or it could have been an attempt at giving me pleading "puppy eyes". I decided to try to ignore his expression.</div><div>"Another thing with not going," I added, giving Andrew an alternate solution so that he would be okay with not going this time, "is there's a dinner date dance night with the Orem Institute in November."<br />
"Great!" Andrew said cheerily. "We can go to that, too!"</div><div>I shook my head, amused at his dogged determination.</div><div>"I'll even dress up. I can wear a cape and slick my hair back and go as a vampire. The kind without glitter," he continued. "I won't even need any kind of makeup, since I'm white enough already." I smiled, resting my head on his shoulder, not responding. I pulled away again, looking him in the eyes. His expression was still there. I turned away, trying not to let myself get worn over.</div>"You know you want to," Andrew pressed.. Leaning back against him as he wrapped his arms around me, I sighed.<div>"Ok, maybe a little."<br />
"HA! See? I was right! I win! Even if only half of you wants to, ALL of me does, and that makes it 3/4 against 1/4, and majority wins!" He was grinning, triumphant.</div><div>Struggling internally, I turned to him. "You'll stop if your foot starts hurting too badly?"<br />
"I may be a little stupid, but I'm not an idiot."<br />
"Okay, we can go."</div><div><br />
</div><div>We're going dancing tomorrow night.</div><div><br />
</div><div>Normally Andrew doesn't have to try pressing at me to go dancing with him. I honestly love dancing with him. This time it was different though.</div><div>We had gone to classic skating a couple days ago and he had broken open a blister on his foot that neither of us knew existed. Consequentially, his foot was hurting him a lot.<br />
However, I'm marrying someone that absolutely loves ballroom and loves going dancing. How could he pass that up?<br />
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First conversational debate results?<br />
Both of us were silently stubborn.</div><div>Him stubbornly wanting to take me dancing, me not wanting him to hurt his foot worse.</div><div>After conversing for a while, we compromised.</div><div><br />
</div><div>Marriage is certainly going to be interesting.</div><div>Especially when we reach issues difficult to compromise over.</div>Elizabethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05569106064175315496noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757724672445101281.post-79788505940188829952011-10-24T10:17:00.000-07:002011-10-24T10:45:03.017-07:00Finding the SunshineI've often joked that optimism is just in my blood; after all, my blood type is B+. Occasionally things will come along that will bring me down, but it usually doesn't take long for me to bounce back up. <br />
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Thank you everyone for your support and well wishes the other day. They helped, and once again life is doing much better. My mom made a comment on my last post, saying "today is inherently going to be better - because you'll find the sunshine - you always do. :)"<br />
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I did find sunshine. These were some of my sunshines:<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">My car is up and running again!! I'm seriously so happy that it passed safety and emissions and I was able to register it again. Now we just have to get my fiance's car fixed...</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Did you know that true love came complete with tickle fights, thumb wars, ballroom dancing, jokes, academic conversations, shameless flirting and compliments, glidging, Lincoln Logs, Pokemon battles, hiking, and more? (He even helps with dishes when I get behind on them! Which happens a lot...) I absolutely had no clue what it was going to be like falling in love with this man, or what I was getting myself into. Love is different than how I had pictured it, and definitely for the better.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">The literal sunshine. It's been so warm and sunny lately that you almost can't help but feel happy inside. It makes me want to dance and sing and run and play and just ENJOY living! So I do :)</td><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;"> <span style="font-size: small;">My beautiful, beautiful, amazing little sister :) She came down to visit for the weekend and spending time with her and feeling her love was SPLENDID! I wish I could have spent more of that time with her, but I'm so grateful for the time I got.</span></span><br />
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<div style="text-align: left;">There are so many more. Friends that have helped, family, and the many, many small pleasures that life offers. I'm grateful for a fiance that truly loves and cares about me, that has stood beside me every step of the way (since I met him), for both his and my family for their love and support, and for my friends that have never given up on me. I'm grateful for laughter, thumb wars, tickle fights, and smoothies. I cannot count the innumerable things the Savior has blessed me with.</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br />
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Today started off as one of the kinds of days where you actually get stuff done. Like, bake a cake. Or make a giant cookie the size of a large pizza and frost it red (or more of a pink if you can't make it red enough) and cover with candy so it also looks like a large pizza. Or hang out with a friend. Or battle with Pokemon cards with your older brother and that friend. Or contact a seamstress to get your dress altered for a wedding. Or get some laundry done.<br />
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Or, if you're me, all of the above.<br />
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My day really was going exceptionally well. I was leaving with my friend, Carlin, to go drop off my giant pizza cookie at work, then take my dress to the seamstress I had called and contacted, and then possibly find time to donate plasma before heading off to work that night. I made it to Domino's and dropped off the pizza cookie and went back out to the car. And tried to start the car.<br />
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And then I tried to start the car again.<br />
And again.<br />
And again.<br />
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You know, it had driven there fine. It had given no signs of any issues before. But now it would NOT start. Two of my coworkers came and stopped and looked at the car. We tried getting a rolling start to get it to turn over and start. We tried SEVERAL ideas. NOTHING worked. I was also having a very hard time getting someone to cover my shift. I had to call and cancel my appointment to stop by the seamstress' house to drop off the dress and get the alterations done as soon as possible.<br />
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Honestly, I was ready to cry. I was so stressed out that it was ridiculous. My manager Ashlie was pretty much ready to let me use her car to close, but she wasn't sure she actually could let one of the drivers use her car since she was manager. I finally managed to find someone to close for me, though, and I went back to my car. Carlin tried contacting a friend to get suggestions on how to get it to start, but nothing worked. We walked across the street to the library, came back, and then finally got a ride from Carlin's grandmother. She dropped me off at my house and I headed to bed.<br />
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So, crying is definitely the worst invention ever. Honestly? Apparently feeling upset enough to cry isn't enough, because then you also get a headache, congestion, and your eyes get all red and puffy. End result, you look as bad as you feel. Which, if you encounter a mirror after crying, only makes you feel worse. Someone seriously needs to revise this invention. All it does is makes you go from feeling horrible to making you feel worse. It does help relieve stress, though. Somehow.<br />
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When Andrew got on his break from work he then got all of the texts I had sent him. He handled it really well, assuring me he didn't think it was my fault, we'd figure it out, and that he'd stop by after work. Honestly, reacting the way he did just helped reaffirm my belief that I'm choosing a great guy to marry. I'm so grateful for him.<br />
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Hopefully soon we can get everything figured out with his car. At least tomorrow is my day off...<br />
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And hopefully tomorrow isn't just one of those days.Elizabethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05569106064175315496noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757724672445101281.post-68460188450702261562011-10-10T06:41:00.000-07:002011-10-10T06:41:16.720-07:00ChangeIt seems like the only consistency to life is change. It's almost like God's way of making sure we have to rely on Him and forcing us to trust that He has greater plans in store for us. Sometimes understanding why things are happening the way they are is completely beyond us. We just can't see why things are the way they are while we're in the moment of things.<br />
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I guess where I'm going with this is how huge the changes in my family's lives have been. While not all of the changes have not been bad, change is still something that throws us off by a lot.<br />
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My parents are now divorced.<br />
My mom moved to South Weber has started attending college at Weber State University (and is getting straight A's! I'm so proud of her!! She's extremely stressed out all the time now, though) and is trying to get into a competitive nursing program.<br />
My older brother is shipping out to the Marines in a week.<br />
I'm getting married in 9 weeks, and I'm going to be going through the temple to get my endowments in 7 weeks. Definitely not a bad change, but I'm not going to lie. It's slightly scary since I have no idea what to expect. It's also very exciting though :)<br />
My younger siblings have all moved to South Weber with my mom. This means they had to leave all of their friends here, since they now live 2 - 2 1/2 hours away. They're not going to the same schools anymore, have to make new friends, and my younger sister is learning how to drive... Their whole lives have just gone topsy turvy.<br />
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I'm not going to lie and say that I'm 100% comfortable with all of the changes in my life. I honestly feel like one of the only stable aspects of my life that I can rely on without doubt is my fiance.<br />
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However, with all the changes going on in my family's lives, I can go back to the words of <span class="st">Elder Joseph B. Wirthlin, "Come What May and Love It."</span><br />
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This gives me so much hope for the future, for moving on, for forgiving, and for becoming so much more whole. I know that I am healing and that I am heading in the right direction.<br />
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I'm so grateful for the Atonement and for my friends that have helped me get to this point. Without them, I don't think I would be as far along in this process as I already am.<br />
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I'm going to continue healing. Someday I will completely forgive and move on.<br />
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For this I am grateful.Elizabethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05569106064175315496noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757724672445101281.post-11853440505888207982011-10-03T11:34:00.000-07:002011-10-03T11:34:41.367-07:00Photographic Memories<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">My fiance and I :) I love him so much!!</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">My beautiful four little sisters :)</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Rebecca took my place in the food chain. She's the happy smiling one about to be eaten alive.</td></tr>
</tbody></table>Elizabethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05569106064175315496noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757724672445101281.post-27044244245955739592011-08-12T15:39:00.000-07:002011-10-03T11:21:02.333-07:00I Said Yes!!On Tuesday, August 9th, 2011, Andrew Christiansen asked me to marry him. And I said yes! <br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">The ring!</td></tr>
</tbody></table>Here's how he asked:<br />
We frequently go on hikes together (Dry Canyon, Battle Creek Canyon, Provo Canyon, The Y, Stewart Falls...), so him asking me if I wanted to go on a hike with him was nothing out of the ordinary. We took a longer route getting to the canyon than normal, but started off the hike as normal. See, when we hike, we try to find the colors of the rainbow along the trail. It can't be something you brought with you or that you are wearing. And the sky does not count, because it's not exactly ON the trail. There were a trillion (definition: a large undetermined number) caterpillars in silky webs on the way up, and yellow was definitely well represented that day.<br />
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We finally made it to the top of the waterfall. For a second I thought we were going to cross and go across the ledge we had gone across on our first date, but since the water was unusually high it's probably a good thing we didn't cross to the other side so we could go on to the lookout area. However, there at the bank of the water was a vase of flowers and a small cooler that had a note attached to it with heart stickers that said, "For a couple of great people!"<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">The vase of flowers at the top of the waterfall.<br />
Pictures taken by Andrew's brother, Tom, who had brought them up beforehand.</td></tr>
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I'm not sure if my yes was actually audible, but apparently it worked, because he put the ring on my finger and then kissed me. I then picked up the vase of flowers and carefully made my way back down to the bottom of the falls, Andrew carrying the small cooler beside me. We had lunch at the bottom of the falls, with mist spraying lightly on us. It was amazing :)<br />
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</tbody></table>Halfway through eating, a lady approached us. "Hey!" she greeted us warmly. " So, what are you two up to?"<br />
"He asked me to marry him," I told her, smiling, and showed her my ring.<br />
"Oh my goodness, that is gorgeous!" she said, smiling widely. "We were kind of guessing that's what happened. Well, congratulations!"<br />
"Thank you!" we both said as she left, the group of children that had been with her leaving as well.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">My gorgeous ring ;)</td></tr>
</tbody></table>After we finished, we sat and enjoyed the breeze and each others company for a while before heading back to the car slowly. Along the way, another group, with a bunch of scouts, two women, and two little girls stopped us. "We just saw you walking down with the flowers and everything, and my daughter just said that it was romantic," the woman told us, smiling. "Is there any special occasion?"<br />
"Actually..." I paused, then held out my hand for her to see, leaving the meaning clear.<br />
"Oh my goodness!! That's fantastic! (Her daughter's name), come look at this!! He just asked her to marry him!"<br />
The little girl looked at my ring shyly, then went back to the group.<br />
"I should have figured. You two are just glowing! Well, congratulations!!! Have a great day!!"<br />
We thanked them, then finished hiking back.<br />
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The rest of the day was spent driving all around town telling people the good news.<br />
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We're getting married December 17th, and I'm leaning heavily towards the Draper temple.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Lilies and a rose from the bouquet</td></tr>
</tbody></table>Elizabethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05569106064175315496noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757724672445101281.post-68895780436027455402011-07-31T00:10:00.000-07:002011-07-31T00:10:40.513-07:00An Eventful Week of SortsThis week went "interesting" on Tuesday... I was at work and it started raining. Hard. I was delighted, because I absolutely LOVE the rain. In between deliveries, running in and out the door, was the BEST! I would get rained on and I loved the feel of the water splashing my face. However, this turned out to not be as great of a thing as I thought it was. The streets were full of water, and my boyfriend's basement flooded.<br />
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I asked him if there was any way I could help, & he asked me to call him after I got off of work to see where they were at then. When I called, things were in a muddled confusion. Background noise + Andrew being distracted = not much made sense, other than the fact they were leaving to go get ANOTHER shop vac. I volunteered towels & a fan, and we decided he would call/text me to let me know when they were back so I could head over.<br />
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After borrowing 2 towels from Terry, my roommate's boyfriend, I grabbed all of my towels I own (3) and hopped in my car. I decided to stop by D.I. in case I could find more towels. Turns out they were closing when I got there, so it didn't happen. Still waiting for him to text or call me, I went over to the park close to his apartment. I feel useless doing nothing when I know there's something going on I could be helping with, so I decided I'd go swing to help get rid of some of my nervous energy.<br />
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As I got closer to the swings, I noticed that something was sitting on top of it. When I got fairly close, I noticed it was an owl, staring straight at me. Now, the best comparison I could think of on what sound it was making was like those ghosts with the lamps in Zelda, Orcharina of Time (I used to play when I was younger). I backed up, deciding to just watch it. I'd never seen an owl in real life before, so I sat on the park bench and just watched it. I think it was unsure what to think about me, because it started rocking its body and swirling its head. Maybe this was supposed to be intimidating? It looked like a cute little dance to me. I heard a similar noise coming from the other park bench, so I turned. There were perched two more owls, the same size as the one on the swingset. (which was about one foot tall, at the most. They were TINY).<br />
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After a while, I left. My boyfriend texted me saying they were good and to go tutor. So I did. By the end of the quiz I was falling asleep & drove home.<br />
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That was JUST Tuesday.<br />
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The next day I went to the temple to meet up with Andrew so we could do baptisms together. On the way there it was raining,which I loved. I got pulled into a different group doing family names, and he ended up having the work he was doing go longer, so we never met up. When I got out of the temple, I turned my phone on & the texts started coming in. I got a few in total, but Andrew sent the most... Having never met up with him, he had apparently still tried meeting up & thought something had happened to me. I made sure he knew I was fine, then found out his basement flooded AGAIN. I changed & went over to help. That was also Viva's birthday, which of course I forgot about :P<br />
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Thursday I went to go tutor, only to find that they had a U-Haul truck there, and they were in the middle of moving. I helped them pack, recruited Andrew, & we got to work. Around 10 Andrew left, & half an hour later, things died down. With nothing to do I headed home & went to bed.<br />
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Friday my car stalled during work, my mom came to save me, then Andrew came to help (we were going to go on a hike, but he ended up coming over to help me help my mom move)... I drove the van home from Salt Lake with the kids so my mom could drive the U-Haul truck. It was an interesting day. I started crashing super early.<br />
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Saturday I went to the temple with Andrew, then we went & did a service project. Then we tried finding a place to fix my car. Turns out everywhere is closed until Monday... So Andrew's dad will help me fix it then.<br />
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Now, this next part, I'm not sure how many people really read my blog... But I guess here's a minor heads up. That I debated about not mentioning until later, but it adds to the craziness of the week. <br />
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Then, Andrew & I went shopping... for a ring. 5 stores later, I never want to go into another jewelry store for a ring again in my life. EVER. I am so done. I met his mom. She took the news better than we thought. Andrew gets to talk to my dad tonight (since it's now 1 AM...)... This could be interesting.<br />
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By the way, this is still completely unofficial... I mean, he hasn't even asked me to marry him yet (though apparently he already knows where when & how... - I'm guessing August 10th when I'm taking the day off to go to Lagoon with him... But I may very well be wrong.) But yes. Very unofficial. I could still say no... ;)Elizabethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05569106064175315496noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757724672445101281.post-67894592836252127102011-07-15T08:39:00.000-07:002011-07-15T08:39:34.377-07:00Memorable Pizza DeliveriesI currently work at a pizza place, as a "delivery expert". This entails for some interesting stories.<br />
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I was taking a delivery to a hotel room, and when I arrived I knocked on the door. It didn't take long for them to answer, but when they did, a large, hairy, shirtless man opened the door. Now, something weird about me. I have 4 brothers and I ran cross country, but shirtless guys still make me automatically look away. It makes me feel a teeny bit awkward. So here, filling the doorway, was this shirtless man in all his hairy, large splendor. I delivered his pizza, managed a smile, and waited for him to sign the receipt (and hopefully give me a good tip). He finished signing it, WINKED at me, and then went in his room. The tip was 40 CENTS. He WINKED at me and tipped me 40 CENTS?!? Did he think I was enjoying his shirtlessness as a tip?! I focused on brushing it off as I went back to my car so I could keep a cheery disposition for the other people I delivered to.<br />
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Another delivery, I went up to the apartment door. I knocked, and a guy answered (his shirt was on, thank goodness). A girl was on his couch, so I could only assume this was a date. I gave him his food, thanked him for the tip, and began walking away. "Hey!" I turned around. "Do you drink?" I had honestly never thought ANYONE would ask me this. "No." "Oh, ok. Cuz if you did, I was going to invite you to a party tonight." Now, here's my thought. He may have been hitting on me because I'm pretty & wanted to see me at this party, but I was pretty sure that girl in there was his girlfriend, or at least his date. It doesn't seem like very good date etiquette to hit on other girls while your date is within hearing distance. "No, thank you. Have a wonderful evening." "Alright, you too!" It was kind of satisfactory inside how easy that was to turn down.<br />
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On another delivery, the door opened to a firm faced man swaying. It looked like he was going to fall over. I could only assume he was drunk. He didn't seem to be the happy drunk kind, though. He seemed slightly angry. I was pretty intimidated. I gave him his pizza, hoping to make this exchange as quick as possible. When he gave me the money, I turned to go. "Wait." I turned. "What about change?" Ah, right. I forgot to ask him. This was a common amount for a delivery, and the amount he gave me people usually told me to keep the change. "Oh, sorry. Would you like your change back?" He stared at me, hard, then finally said, "Eh, just keep it," then shut the door. Relieved to have that exchange over, I hurried to my car.<br />
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Now, for one of the cuter stories. I got out of the car and was heading for the house when a little girl came around the corner. Looking confused, she told me, "Ma'am, I think you're going to the wrong house. We didn't order pizza." I double checked the address on the pizza. "Well, it's your address on the box..." "What's the address?" I began reading her address from the box when suddenly her parents came out of the house. I walked over to them. "Guess we forgot to consult the little ones before ordering," the dad teased. The little girls were like, "Whaaat?? We ordered pizza???" I left them to figure that one out. :)<br />
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On another delivery, I got out of my car. Two middle aged men approached me from the garage, greeting me raucously. I didn't quite catch what they said, but I could tell it was inappropriate. I handed them their pizza, and asked them how they were doing. "Better than you! I'm drunk, and you're at work!" I could not think of a response, so I smiled and told them to have a good day. "You be safe! And don't drink and drive!" Don't worry, random drunk guy. That will never be a problem for me.<br />
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There are several other stories, but I thought I'd just share a few :) Hope you got laughs out of these!Elizabethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05569106064175315496noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757724672445101281.post-12840557137839967442011-07-12T09:00:00.000-07:002011-07-12T09:00:18.465-07:00Comparing YearsLast year, I went to the Stadium of Fire with my friend Shannon. It was my first time ever going, and it was AMAZING :) I loved it.<br />
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This year, I went on a walk to find a good view of the fireworks with Andrew. The view we found was gorgeous!! After the display he asked if I would be ok with him introducing me to people as his girlfriend.<br />
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Last year, I had a cupcake for my birthday with 18 candles on it, which that many candles on a cupcake = crazy. They were melting each other left & right!! Some of them were even trick candles. I spent all day with my family, and loved every minute.<br />
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This year, I actually somehow didn't get a cake. This is ok, since I was pretty much sugared out already. I started and ended the day with my boyfriend, and spent time with friends & family in between while he was at work. He took me out to dinner, and was kind enough to not tell anyone it was my birthday. Someone else in the restaurant had their birthday that day, & got sang to. My "cake" was fried ice cream.<br />
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Last year, I was just turning 18, living at home, & not sure where life was going to take me.<br />
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This year, I'm living on my own with my family about to move to South Weber, the furthest away I've ever been from them.<br />
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Last year if you had asked me if I was going to be in a relationship one year later, I would have said that I doubted it, but I would have secretly been hoping for it. I would have added that there was absolutely no one that I could see as being even potential for a relationship.<br />
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If you were to ask me if I would still be in a relationship one year from now today, I'd tell you I sure hope so. Because the thing about relationships is that there are only two results that can come from them. Marriage or a break up. If you think about it, that's just how it is. It either works or it doesn't. There is no third option.<br />
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Last year, I didn't want to be in a singles ward because they seemed slightly intimidating.<br />
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This year, I am in a singles ward and enjoy it a lot!<br />
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Funny, isn't it, how much can change in just a year?Elizabethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05569106064175315496noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757724672445101281.post-58238392273393207852011-07-08T11:46:00.000-07:002011-07-08T11:50:45.413-07:00My Greatest Fear...I saw a <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gWQ5dPeixdw&feature=share">YouTube video</a> today that my mom shared, and it reflected my greatest fear and my greatest hope. It talked about how a journey of a thousand miles starts with a single step. It showed a man packing his things and leaving his wife and daughters. Then it rewound and showed him looking at a computer screen, suggesting that he had just come across pornography. The screen split and showed two decisions made in that moment. In one, he shut the laptop and left the room. In the other, he closed the laptop then, pausing, shut the door and opened it again.<br />
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Then, the screens continuing to be split, it showed the consequences of that one step. On the left, he was distanced from his wife and kids, and then eventually left them. In the other, he played with his daughters, brought his wife flowers, and played an active role in the home.<br />
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My heart ached as I watched this <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gWQ5dPeixdw&feature=share">video</a>. In the left I saw, in many ways, my dad. His frequent distance from us growing up, leading to my parents divorce after much abuse. Emotional, physical, verbal... This haunted me. Fear struck me, as again I worried about making sure I choose the right person. I couldn't bear that happening to me. More than falling, that is my greatest fear.<br />
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In the right, I saw my greatest hope. Somehow finding a righteous priesthood holder that would love and respect me, play with his children, read them stories, bring me flowers and kiss me and pray with me, and be there for me.<br />
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<span data-jsid="text">The scariest part about it is, really, the wife had no control over his decision. It's all up to him. Something seemingly so small can become so shattering, depending on the choice made in the moment. </span><br />
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<span data-jsid="text">When I saw this movie it brought back fears that I should have already let go. And all of a sudden, "What if" came to mind. What if I do get married and this happens? Fear is crippling. It makes me unsure of love, doubtful, scared. Which brings back walls that I've been working on breaking down. </span><br />
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<span data-jsid="text">I really need to learn how to let go of this fear...</span>Elizabethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05569106064175315496noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8757724672445101281.post-44013485695663135302011-06-07T07:29:00.000-07:002011-06-07T07:29:48.200-07:00An Unexpected LetterCollege students tend to not get letters very often. So when I saw a hand written letter on the small pile of mail for my apartment, I sincerely hoped it was for me. I assumed, by the handwriting and "inform the sender of your new change of address" label, that it was from my Grandma Kathy. However, as I picked it up, it was from my Great Grandparents, the Prindles.<br />
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Now, when I was little they were my pen pals during their mission together. If my memory serves me correctly, then they have been on around 6 missions together as a couple, and have gone back around 8 or more generations in their tracking of family genealogy. Both were converts to this church. Several years ago, my Great Grandpa Prindle got Alzheimers Disease. His memory has been deteriorating ever since, as you can imagine.<br />
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Last time that I visited him, he was actually VERY good at covering it up. He told us memories he had from his missions, being a teacher, as a parent, and from growing up. He showed us his wood work shed, and things he had worked on. He went through photographs and told us about how he met my great grandmother. He smiled, laughed, joked, and made me feel as loved as they always have.<br />
That's not to say that he didn't have his spacey moments, where he'd say something again, or just trail off and then have to ask us what he was talking about. But everyone has those moments. I was impressed by his keen mind, even while it was deteriorating from Alzheimers.<br />
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I opened the letter, kind of surprised to be hearing from them at all. It had been at least a year or more since we last wrote each other. I was definitely slacking in that field in my life. Normally, they don't initiate contact, because they are writing everyone else and can't remember ALL of their children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren.<br />
"Grampa found your letter you wrote us in 2010," Grandma told me, "and told me that I needed to write you back."<br />
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I was just so impressed by that line. Here is my great grandfather, with a deteriorating memory, reaching out and blessing the lives of others even with (if not because of) his Alzheimers. My great grandmother would not have just sent that letter. She was certain that they had responded (knowing them, she probably had). But my great grandfather cared enough about the discourses between his family members that he asked her to write me back.<br />
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The letter continued to update me, and ask me questions about how I am doing. She then also added that I should email her so she could send me updated letters like she did to all the family, and that she would respond to my emails about once every two weeks at the furthest.<br />
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However, even as I think about it, I am just so grateful for the knowledge I have of this gospel. Grateful for having the knowledge that my wonderful, kind, intelligent great grandfather will live again. Not because he has died, but because he lives in a body with a deteriorating mind when he is such a keen, intelligent, wise person. He will live again, with a perfect, sound mind, and knowledge a hundred fold as his memory is restored to him from not only this life, but from before this existence from the other side of the veil.Elizabethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05569106064175315496noreply@blogger.com0